‘Romantic’ is not someone’s patent (original)

Romance is a colorful color, a mellow coffee, a warm fragrance of flowers, an intoxicating fragrance, a starting point of happiness, a beginning of happiness, and a wing of Heart flying, it is the fragrance of love, the lingering of lovers, and the promise and oath of love. It is neither young nor rich; It has no boundaries and no country; It, regardless of age, old or young; It is not a patent of someone. You can have it as long as you like.

In many people’s dictionaries, romance is the symbol of youth and the patent of the rich. But I don’t think so. I once heard such a story. Once upon a time, there was a poor family. The head of the household planted land for the rich day and night, but when the new year came, he still owed a lot of responsibility to the rich. On the evening of the 30th year of the new year, the rich man came to the door of the poor family. The door was closed. He only heard that the male owner in the room was calling his wife: Mother, you have worked hard for a year, and it is not easy to follow me, today is the Spring Festival. You and the children will have a delicious meal. Do you eat stewed meat or fried dishes? Two big bowls, you can eat whatever you want! As soon as the voice fell, I heard the child’s mother answer again: the child’s father, you are the head of the family. This family depends on you. You work all day long without night or day. It’s very hard, you and the children should eat more! Whether it is stewed meat or fried dishes. Hearing this, the rich man’s lungs were full of anger, purring and swearing in his mouth with hatred and hatred: this big liar usually takes responsibility for him and always says no. When the new year comes, it’s stewed meat and stir-fried food. Let’s see how I come in to clean you up. Therefore, the rich man pushed the door hard and looked silly. Where did the stewed meat and vegetables come from? It was obviously a bowl of big squares of white radish and a bowl of Chinese cabbage. Seeing these, the rich man was embarrassed to ask for responsibility again, so he had to go back home. When you hear the story, don’t you think: this is the romance, wit, humor and true love of the poor!

There is a long way to live. After marriage, the couple are working hard for the happiness of the family, the success of the career, the sweetness of life, the health of the elderly, the happy growth of the children, where can I have time for romance. Sometimes I got tired of work, and when I got home, I got a hatchet face, and the smile I used to hide already; Sometimes I was anxious, and my tone of speech was stiff, and the former gentleness no longer reappeared; And the sentimental eyebrows and eyes, the passionate embrace has already been silent. Unconsciously, the temples were white, and then we counted the fleeting time around our fingertips. The aftertaste of the time contaminated with spring and autumn, and my heart was full of melancholy, suddenly a piece of paper was cold, that is the negative film of love, which has already faded with the washing of years. Recall that in the past, the oath of eternal love was vivid in your eyes, and the scenes of indulging romance reappeared one by one. The long-lost palpitations aroused your romantic love, as if flying melody and harmony were beating your numb heart constantly. Yes, you are no longer young, but you still have the right to enjoy romance. You can manage your love attentively and occasionally create a romantic atmosphere: candlelight dinner, walking hand in hand and traveling with you. Romantic feeling is like a bird flying, which makes you excited and intoxicated.

A hundred years of building the same boat, and a thousand years of building a pillow to sleep together. Please cherish your spouse. Although your spouse is not necessarily your first love, he or she is the manor where you keep your true love; Even if your spouse and your love are not necessarily romantic, but he (she) will accompany you forever; Spouse is not necessarily the lingering in your memory, but he (she) will be the first one to appear forever when you need it most; spouse is not necessarily the shadow of your dream call, but he or she will take care of you for life.

Many people look forward to the classic, passion and romance of love, and hope that love can last forever. As long as you are willing to operate with your heart, I think it is entirely possible. I once remembered that my husband and I walked hand in hand and passed the park. I accidentally saw such a scene: a couple of seven or eighty years old sat on the promenade of the park, the old woman kept beating her back for the old man with her old hands with wrinkles and scars. The old man occasionally stretched out her old hand with the same wind and frost to gently touch the old woman’s face full of wind and frost. Can you say it’s not romance and love? While watching, I asked my husband around me: if one day we were that old and so old, would we love romance like them? The husband smiled and said: Maybe we will be more romantic than them. You are slim and lightweight anyway. Then I will go for a walk in the park behind your back. Although what my husband said was a joke, I heard that the feeling was happiness and romance of shallow consciousness.

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In this world, what you fear most is that when you need love most, he is not there. When you look at the lover holding hands on the road, all you think of is him. Open your hand and hold it tightly, but it is full of air and loneliness. In fact, how much you think, you can hold his hand and see his smile on your side face. How many strangers did you meet at this time. Whether he was waiting for a green light in that place. Endless waiting is like a monologue. You often wonder what he is doing. Have you eaten on time? It’s cold and clothes are added. Also, when you miss him, does he miss you. I dare not tell him your sadness, for fear that he will worry about your sadness. Or, what you are afraid of is that when you think of him in the distance, your heart is empty. Are you faintly afraid that he will meet others and that he will change his mind. Are you afraid that you will meet a person who cares about you in a meticulous way and give you the warmth he gave you at the beginning. Are you afraid? Suddenly one day, you get used to having others around you. He can arrive at the first time when you are ill, not like he can only say on the phone, baby, you have to take good care of yourself. He can accompany you to see a sunrise where you want to go at any time, not like he can only say dear, I will accompany you when you come back. He can walk around the streets and alleys almost every day by holding your hand instead of holding his hand once. Not because he is better than him. Just because he is closer than him. Are you afraid? You walk through different streets in different cities and enter different clothing stores to visit different shopping malls. You go to class alone, run in the morning, borrow books, go to work alone, eat alone and play games alone. You always plan to meet each other next time, and then forget to draw circles on the calendar on your mobile phone. When I caught a cold, I stared at the screen of my mobile phone while holding clear water Cup pills that I was suffering from so much pain that I wanted to cry. The text message said that I would be relieved if I took medicine well. When you are happy, you will always find a corner to make a phone call, so that your good mood can bypass the ravines of thousands of mountains and rivers through radio waves, and send it to another ear to cause the same laughter. When I was lonely, I suddenly wanted to find a piece of paper to find a book, took out a pen that I didn’t use for a long time, wrote down what I wanted to say, and found that I missed so much, maybe there will be tears falling down, falling between the paper and the pen, and blooming the ink. When you are angry, try hard to cover your head and don’t look around, ignore the bright and dark mobile phone screen, not really don’t want to answer, I also know in my heart that the anxiety on the other side is just, want to be cared about. When you are confused, when you are tired, when you are misunderstood, when you are criticized, do you also need a shoulder and a hug? When you get hurt, when you are hungry, when you buy clothes for injection and infusion, when no one gives advice, do you also need a look and a comfort? However, you stick to it. Because, your love is more pure than anyone else, not mixed with what does not contain what does not worry about what, simple, just love. You often say that if only I were here. Yes… if you were here, I wouldn’t have to go to the hospital if I got sick and burned. If you were here, I wouldn’t have to drink like a boy and take care of others. If you were here, you would go and give me brown sugar water when my stomach hurts. If you were here, I wouldn’t have to put my cold hands in my pocket if I had your hands in winter. If you were here, I wouldn’t have to hit others with an umbrella. If you were there, I wouldn’t hide in bed and cry because of missing and misunderstanding. Yes, if you are here, I am drinking and drunk, someone will hand me water and towels. If you were here, my buddy wouldn’t hold his wife to show off with me. If you were here, I wouldn’t look at what you bought me in a daze every day. If you were here, I wouldn’t have to smoke a lot of cigarettes to make myself cough. If you were here, I wouldn’t have to worry about your good day every day. If you were there, I would hold your hand and walk all the time every day. You often say that it is very suitable for you and suitable for me to watch a set of couple clothes together when we meet next time. How rare it is. Well, when we meet next time, let’s go and see it together. It snows here. It’s so beautiful. It’s really beautiful. Well, we will film them when we meet next time. I like dolls. I want you to send them to me. Do you know what dolls are? It is said that we still have a Ferris wheel here, which is higher than the previous one. Well, next time we meet, we will sit. As long as we know, we will all sit. In fact, who knows when the next meeting is. Because, there are always such and such reasons, such and such things are entangled with hands and feet. However, you still insist on your pure love. Pure, pure makes people feel distressed. There can be no willfulness, no suspicion. What you are waiting for is forever, so you pretend that you don’t care. There can be no concealment. There can be no betrayal. What you want is to feel each other’s heart and breath. There can’t be luxury. It’s a waste. How much do you want to see each other, so you can save all the savings. When love is not produced together, no one cares about distance. Once love comes into being, distance is fatal. How can there be no temptation around you? How can we not waver in the face of temptation? After the shake, how could it not be performed at all? It shows, how can it not cause harm? Therefore, compared with others, the test your love faces is more, longer, deeper and more terrible. Therefore, your persistence, your loyalty, your hardships, as much as more, harder and more rugged. Even if you can’t go to work together, go to work together and go outing together for the weekend. Even if you can’t go to the market hand in hand to buy food and go home to cook. Even if you can’t meet each other every day. Even if you can’t snuggle in hand. Even if you can’t hug and keep warm. Even if it takes so long and so long, I can’t meet again. Even though mobile phone text messages and Internet access, telephone is a compulsory course. Some people say that the rubber band of long-distance love can only be pulled for three years at most. I want to say that no matter what kind of love, it must be kept fresh. As long as you still believe and insist, as long as you still love, as long as you still love. Nothing can stop it, at least, I believe. I remember I saw a debate about whether long-distance love can last forever. I think, yes. Yes, although I know, all this is very difficult. However, I think it is just waiting. Give your youth, give your feelings, and wait for the day when you can get together. However, I think it is just learning to be strong and brave, walking slower and more carefully on this road. Love can win the time difference and defeat the distance. As long as you insist, as long as I insist. If one day, I tell you, I will not wait for you, then you must remember, come back and take me away.

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